What do guys know about love? I find it rather funny when female friends asked me this question. In their mind, they always felt that guys don’t know anything about love.
Even if they do know about it but they never seem to be emotional towards anything. I don’t think it’s true. I find guys are as emotional and sentimental as any species of any kind.
Maybe the fact of us being born as male species requires them to be dominant.
Ego, pride, whatever you name it. The feeling does not allow others to recognize them as the weaker kind that falls into wheels of emotion. In a relationship, the role of the male is to protect and possess the female as so to say.
Being protective means you have express yourself as mentally strong and not swayed into temptations. But not all guys are like that. As far as I know there are a couple of them who gets all emotional during a quarrel.
Guys do cry when they are sad. It’s a lie if they tell you they never cry before, for there’s nothing chauvinist for a man to shed his tears but for a fruitful course that is. Adults cried quietly, trying to hide the attention of those weary eyes.
I cried many times in my life, sometimes over silly things, sometimes over a sad movie, sometimes over a failure, sometimes over a relationship. But if you ask me whether I have cried before, my answer would most probably be a straight no in your face. But if you ask me what I know about love.
My answer would surprisingly be a ‘no’ too. All I can only tell you that love is a remarkable experience that only you alone can feel when it hits you.
Everyone’s definition and impression is different and there’s no right or wrong to it. There’s no logic or rational thinking towards love.
There’s only how you feel that leads you.
That’s why people always say “go with your heart” in a relationship.
This is Love, all irrational and unbelievably true.
from Journal of Life blog.
A relationship is not measurable with any formula or logical explanation or with mathematics equations. If you like a person, you will really like her despite all the bad points that she has and even you yourself won’t believe what decision you have made. When that time comes, you’ll know that you’re in love.